Reflections
21st Century Goddesses & the Men Who Don’t Deserve Them
Most of my friends are either married or in some sort of relationship. Whenever we meet for drinks or dinner, the topic of love inevitably comes up. Being one of the few single friends left who has the time to listen to their woes, I am often the go-to-person when a sounding board is... »
Guys and Dolls
“For some people, finding a partner in life can be difficult. For others, it’s almost impossible.” (“Guys and Dolls”, Channel 5 UK documentary) Connecting with people, dating and relationships are undoubtedly difficult. With all the complex dating games and the growing yet competitive singles market which we have no choice but to play in,... »
Nice Guy or Bad Boy?
“Nice guys finish last” seems to be the mantra when it comes to nice-guy-love-stories. Such tales are usually riddled with unappreciated, broken-hearted blokes who wear their hearts on their sleeves, giving it their all in every relationship, but being rejected or dumped time and time again for the simple reason that they are “too... »
Is Romance Dead?
On a gloomy Saturday, when I was feeling a bit gloomy myself, I made the mistake of watching the film, Bright Star. I cried my eyes out through the entire film and left the theater in a state of despair wondering if romance is dead. »
LovEvolution 2009
October 3rd, the one month anniversary of my blog. Out of curiosity and in celebration of this momentous day, I attended the biggest love event in San Francisco, the LovEvolution (a.k.a. the Love Parade or LoveFest) with the goal of discovering what love is for these “love evolutionists”. »
Dating Is Not for “The Frail”
While out and about one night in San Francisco’s SoMa District, my friend Kari and I ventured into Slim’s to watch a local band called The Frail. Unlike its name, the band, especially the lead singer and drummer, enthralled the audience with an energetic and spunky performance. It was a different story,... »
Holy Cow!
“Never a cover, always a party” is the motto of San Francisco’s holiest of meat markets, the Holy Cow. It is a sacred mating ground where you’ll find the shortest of skirts and the tightest of shirts, not only on women but also on men. It calls itself an over 21... »
Marina Meat Market
For those of you who are not familiar with the Marina, it is San Francisco’s premier meat market, teeming with young, beautiful, twenty- and thirty- somethings, dressed to the nines like peacocks in search of a mate. Every night, the restaurants, bars and clubs are filled to the brim with happy, drunk and sexually... »

